Many Muslim American men travel to foreign countries to obtain quick Islamic divorce. Most often the husband who goes to a foreign country leaves his wife, property and children in the United States. This type of divorce may be valid in the foreign country but it is not necessary valid in the United States.
U.S. Courts do not apply Islamic Shari'a law because it violates the Establishment Clause set in the United States Constitution; they apply foreign law when necessary. American Courts do apply foreign law in certain cases involving international principle known as "conflict of Laws," or "Private International Law." This is referred to in U.S. courts as "the doctrine of comity".
In the area of Private International Law, Comity is a courtesy, amity, and reciprocity by U.S. courts towards court decision issued in other nations. Such a consideration by U.S. courts does not entail an obligation to agree with the rulings of foreign judgments. There is therefore a distinction between the doctrine of comity and law.
Public International Law can become part of the national law when the country has its signature on that law, Private international Law however, does not have the same level of recognition by U.S. Courts. The issue of comity is raised in Islamic divorce cases when a person who resides legally in the United States travels to a foreign country and obtain a certificate of divorce from a religious court.
The intent is to obtain an instant divorce by pronouncing triple talaq (divorcing his wife three times in a few minutes.) Such an action leaves the wife with nothing more than a nominal deferred mahr, and takes advantage of the child custody, which discriminates against the women and to label the wife as bad Muslim.
The man then returns to the United States and serves his wife with divorce papers demanding the implementation of the divorce according to the Islamic Shari'a, claiming that the "doctrine of comity" applies to his case.
American courts do not apply Islamic laws because it violates the Establishment Clause of the United States Constitution; they apply foreign law at their discretion. To determine whether to apply a foreign law, U.S. courts turn to Private International Law, including the “doctrine of comity.” Thus the application of the principle of comity is not mandatory, but is rather a matter of custom. They may deny the application of comity if the judges deem the foreign laws is “repugnant” to U.S. principle of law.
Generally, a judgment of divorce for example issued in a foreign country is recognized in the U.S. on the basis of comity, provided both parties to the divorce received adequate notice, i.e. service of process and, generally, provided one of the parties has a domicile in the foreign nation at the time of divorce, and the foreign court has given opportunity to both parties to present their case, and the trial was conducted upon regular proceedings after due citation or voluntary appearance of the litigants, and under a system of jurisprudence likely to secure an impartial administration of justice between the citizens of its own country, and those of other countries, an no prejudice towards either party and should not violate a strong U.S. principle of law, and the parties were present in court.
An Islamic triple talaq differs substantially with respect to property division. Under Islamic Shari’a, wives may be entitled to a deferred mahr, which is, in most cases, much less than what U.S. courts order; above all, U.S. courts will not accept an Islamic divorce certificate obtained in a foreign country if the cause of action on which the divorce is based is “repugnant” to the public policy of the State in which the case is litigated.
Gabriel Sawma is Professor of Middle East Constitutional Law and Islamic Shari’a. He is an expert on Islamic marriage contracts and Islamic divorce. Editor of an International Law website: http://www.gabrielsawma.blogspot.com. Author of “The Qur’an: Misinterpreted, Mistranslated and Misread. The Aramaic Language of the Qur’an.” http://www.syriacaramaicquran.com. Author of an upcoming book on Islamic Divorce in US Courts. Email: gabrielsawma@yahoo.com; gabygms@gmail.com; tel. (609) 915-2237.
Submitted by Mahdiya (not verified) on Fri, 05/06/2011 - 2:43pm
As Salaam Alaikum,
I remarried my husband after 19 years. We followed the Islamic law with Marriage contract with four witnesses and their signature on the contract and a dower. The dower was extend for a year for him to fulfill. We also have a marriage license thru the state. We separated after eight months of marriage. He didn't paid any portion of my dower nor did he give me three months maintences. He actually left me in debt. Please help.... Our son is 28 years old.
My question is:
Can I sue my husband for my dower and three months maintences.
What are my rights? Shukran, Sister in the deem.
Submitted by Prof. Gabriel Sawm (not verified) on Sat, 05/07/2011 - 3:49pm
Absolutely, you can sue him under your state law. Jurisdiction in all cases involving divorce in the United States belongs to the civil courts alone, not to sharia courts.
I would suggest that you hire an attorney in your area to initiate divorce proceedings against your husband. Your attorney will raise the issue of alimony in the court. And I will talk to your attorney about the issue of mahr.
But I have to see a copy of the marriage certificate, and I need you to answer the questions emailed to you earlier.
Submitted by betty (not verified) on Fri, 08/12/2011 - 7:54am
the husband is muslim and the wife is from ilinois.they got married in Illinois by islamic contract.After 22 years,they have three girls:15,13,10 years old.the wife decided to get divorce ,afer she confessed to her husband and the marriage consular that she had and still having many affairs since they got married .In her oppinion ,this is a life style of living She left the house to live with another man who is divorsed and no job.The husband is taking care of the three girls since August 2010.She gave up her rights of children custody one month ago.Now,she wants the legal custody again,even the girls do not want to be with her.The husband find out that their marriage was only islamic in illinois,and the wife signed that she did not want mahr at that time.this islamic contract was signed by the state of ilinois.the wife did not work or kept a jobs.the husband paid her loans at that time of marriage.What is legal issue for the islamic contract to be accepted and to protect the wellfare of children with unfit mother?
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Submitted by Mahdiya (not verified) on Fri, 05/06/2011 - 2:43pmAs Salaam Alaikum,
I remarried my husband after 19 years. We followed the Islamic law with Marriage contract with four witnesses and their signature on the contract and a dower. The dower was extend for a year for him to fulfill. We also have a marriage license thru the state. We separated after eight months of marriage. He didn't paid any portion of my dower nor did he give me three months maintences. He actually left me in debt. Please help.... Our son is 28 years old.
My question is:
Can I sue my husband for my dower and three months maintences.
What are my rights? Shukran, Sister in the deem.
Yes
Submitted by Prof. Gabriel Sawm (not verified) on Sat, 05/07/2011 - 3:49pmAbsolutely, you can sue him under your state law. Jurisdiction in all cases involving divorce in the United States belongs to the civil courts alone, not to sharia courts.
I would suggest that you hire an attorney in your area to initiate divorce proceedings against your husband. Your attorney will raise the issue of alimony in the court. And I will talk to your attorney about the issue of mahr.
But I have to see a copy of the marriage certificate, and I need you to answer the questions emailed to you earlier.
Prof. Gabriel Sawma
Tel. (609) 915-2237
Email: gabriels@fdu.edu
http://www.gabrielsawma.blogspot.com
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Submitted by betty (not verified) on Fri, 08/12/2011 - 7:54amthe husband is muslim and the wife is from ilinois.they got married in Illinois by islamic contract.After 22 years,they have three girls:15,13,10 years old.the wife decided to get divorce ,afer she confessed to her husband and the marriage consular that she had and still having many affairs since they got married .In her oppinion ,this is a life style of living She left the house to live with another man who is divorsed and no job.The husband is taking care of the three girls since August 2010.She gave up her rights of children custody one month ago.Now,she wants the legal custody again,even the girls do not want to be with her.The husband find out that their marriage was only islamic in illinois,and the wife signed that she did not want mahr at that time.this islamic contract was signed by the state of ilinois.the wife did not work or kept a jobs.the husband paid her loans at that time of marriage.What is legal issue for the islamic contract to be accepted and to protect the wellfare of children with unfit mother?
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